Discord

Learn about the TLHMH Discord community and safety expectations.

TLHMH • Discord
🕯️ A lighthouse for leaders & hearts

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A trauma‑aware, faith‑rooted space for leaders, helpers, and anyone carrying heavy things. You don’t have to hold it all alone.

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0 members • always open Support • Leadership • Quiet rooms

Inside the server

A few of the spaces you’ll find once you join.

Support & Check‑ins

Channels for gentle check‑ins, prayer requests, venting, and being honest about how you’re really doing.

#check‑ins #prayer‑requests #today‑was‑a‑lot

Leadership & Resources

Tools, frameworks, and conversations for leaders who carry others—without losing themselves in the process.

#leadership‑lab #resources #sermon‑&‑session‑ideas

Quiet & Rest Spaces

Low‑pressure channels where you can sit, listen, or just exist without needing to perform or explain.

#quiet‑room #music‑&‑worship #gratitude‑thread

Community rules

We keep this space safe, gentle, and honoring of each person’s story.

  • 1. Honor stories. No shaming, mocking, or minimizing someone’s experience—ever.
  • 2. No crisis replacement. This server is not a substitute for emergency or professional care.
  • 3. Confidentiality. Don’t share others’ stories outside the server without explicit permission.
  • 4. No hate or harassment. Zero tolerance for discrimination, bullying, or targeted harm.
  • 5. Content warnings. Use CW/TW for heavy topics (self‑harm, abuse, graphic details).
  • 6. Respect boundaries. “No” is a complete sentence. Don’t pressure DMs or responses.
  • 7. Follow Discord ToS. You must comply with Discord’s Terms of Service and Community Guidelines.
Step 1
Join the server using the button above or below.
Step 2
Read the #rules and #start‑here channels.
Step 3
React with the ✅ emoji in #verification to confirm you’ve read and agree.
Step 4
A bot will assign you a role and unlock the rest of the server.
I understand this is a support‑minded, trauma‑aware space.

Fun, grounding & hidden things

Because even serious spaces need a little light.

Secret search bar

Type certain words to unlock small grounding tools and Easter eggs.

🕯️ You found the hidden lighthouse. Even when you can’t see it, the light is still there.
Breathe in for 4… hold for 4… out for 6. Repeat a few times. You’re allowed to slow down.
Look around: 5 things you can see, 4 you can touch, 3 you can hear, 2 you can smell, 1 you can taste.
Calm Mode is on. Animations soften, colors warm, and nothing is urgent here.

Pixel lighthouse mini‑game

Turn the beacon back on as a reminder: light can be restored.

Click the lighthouse window to light the beacon.

🌟 The lighthouse is shining again. You helped restore the light.

Hint: type pixel in the search bar above to start the game.

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